It’s not about you!
Try this simple and effective adage: Quit Taking It Personally
An easy way to remember – the acronym QTIP
Most of us are so caught up in our own lives and stories that we don’t really take the time or give that much attention to other people’s lives. So, when you feel something is aimed at you, it’s more likely the way the other person typically reacts to others, and also likely more due to their own background than anything you’ve done.