“You don’t have a problem—you have a solution you don’t like.”
Most times “the problem” is not “the problem”. We’re avoiding that because we don’t want to accept the solution, not accept reality, or not realize that there really isn’t a problem: there’s just reality.
As Byron Katie says, “Reality just is. We don’t get a vote.”
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This makes so much sense to me. Thank you.
Both quotes: excellent. And true!
Thanks for your wise and inspiring insight and quotes. Peace…