I choose both! When I’ve discovered the interconnection of my dreams and others, then things really start to flow.
So many times, I’ve found myself limited by my own dreams, and when I’ve opened to what’s real and in front of me, have experienced a much deeper and creative experience.
So many times, when I haven’t accepted the sound of judgement in the approval or disapproval of others, I’ve seen beyond that right/wrong thinking to get much closer to living fully.
I’m reminded of a poem by Rumi, reminding me to keep open to what is.